Thought for the day...

No matter how much I care, some people are just jackasses.

We choose our equals...

... and then we compete with them...

We don't compare ourselves with people much better or much worse off than us. Their success or failure doesn't bother us...

But if our equals get a promotion before us, or a job offer with slightly more money.. they buy a slightly nicer car.. or buy their house 2 years before us.. that bothers us...
We try and look for reasons why our lives are better than theirs.. explanations why our achievements are more fulfilling than theirs..
There's a hint of a guilty pleasure whenever things don't work out for them exactly as planned...

We do that.. don't we...

YOU do that.. don't you ?!
Well.. I don't want to be your equal.. It doesn't matter if I'm better or worse than you... I just don't want to be YOUR competition !

I hate...

.. show offs .. the worst are the ones that pretend NOT to be.. but still are.. So they think they're being subtle..

Fake people are worse than show offs...
Actually a lot of people are jus delusional.. they convince themselves that they are "genuine".. Its a tough thing to fix, will need YEARS of therapy...

Couples who give each other such appellations .. as Shona.. Jaanu.. and what-not .. are uuugggghhhh...
And there needs to be a law against couples who subject other people around them to their "baby talk".. Thas jus WRONG !

Arrggggh... credit hogs... customer service.. I could just go on and ON today..

So yea Happy Valentine's Day.. think happy loving thoughts !! Unless yer a Shiv Sainik.. in which case go burn anything that's RED !

:-/