(well it isn't my fault... they jus keep asking me :p)... and she ended up giving me some..
(eeyup.. we see a pattern there.. don't we !!)
She told me Men and Women "befriend" differently...
Women "befriend" to care.. be concerned.. be there.. be the shoulder.. be the support.. make room.. make time... to cry with... to worry with..
Men "befriend" to take for granted... to be at ease.. to forget... to be forgiven... to take up room.. without hesitation.. to laugh with.. to forget with..
Well then.. I asked her.. what should someone like ME do.. I asked her..
I "befriend" Men.. in the only way I know how.. Like a "Woman"...
Should I learn to "befriend" like a Man or teach them to "be" a "friend" to a Woman ?
She had no good answer.. neither is too easy...
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