... they usually go one of two ways...
One in which the number of things they do together becomes a small intersection of what the two have in common...
Two in which each one takes the opportunity to try and appreciate /learn and understand the interests of the other person... as a result of which the activities they can both be involved in.. close to double !
The first one is unfortunate as you get to spend less time together (assuming you like the things that you do.. so you spend your time doing them alone...)
The second one is ideal in the sense that you get to explore areas that you haven't had the opportunity/interest to yet.. and that expands your own horizons alongwith giving you more together time..
There is a third way it can go... its when one person completely gives up on what they ever liked to do and do only what the second person enjoys....
This.. in my opinion.. is worse than the first one... UNLESS of course.. you ACTUALLY completely change and begin to like ONLY the stuff that your significant other does...
THAT is kinda pathetic.. but yer probably happier if you have sufficiently convinced yourself that your significant others' interests are now YOURS !!
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